Dad’s The Spirit !!! On Father’s Day

How does one define the love? How does one define words that need not to be broken? How does one define a friend who dreams for you? How does one define a true teacher? How does one define a person who is your ally for life? How does one define a guide who is willing to let you find the way?How does one define the real meaning of patience? How does one define how to remain strong or stable when someone very close to you is deceiving you for a long time?

All of the above, in some day describe my PAPA(Father). Yet, i struggle to find the appropriate words to express or define our understanding. My world starts and ends with my PAPA. His presence is so much impact full for me that it makes my work more efficient. He is the only reason for which i can believe in the almighty God that he is everything. He is the utmost creation. My father is my God on earth.

My father is not a regular dad with regular dreams. My father had and still has great foresight. At my tough times, he never let me down, but also encouraged me till this day and will continue till this world ends. And more interesting thing about him is at his crucial time he never let me realised how he was feeling the pain and all!!!

I was not raised as a son or daughter; he raised me to be a person first. I was raised to understand that my choices should always be my own. This brought me a turning point in my life. I chose an engineering field rather than medical one (as my other school mates were planning to choose, because it would be cheap than engineering according to their parents). He said to me whatever you have desire do that, so i chose engineering.

As a child, to me, my father was larger than life. He was coolest dad in the school. He never has been on the bed for more than 7 hours in a single day; this is one of the great qualities of him i am following in my life. His deep love and understanding towards other has inspired me in some many days. Being an optimist person, he has lot of hope from others, sometime he gets some favour form others and sometime he feels sad. But he never loses hope.

In this world he has been helping me to create a sense of equilibrium in mind. This is really fantastic about him. The best part of his life came when he had faced lot of ups and downs, he had not lost his ability to enjoy and trust life with an enthusiasm.

He is easily one of the most dedicated people i have ever seen. As a merchant, he is alive every day with a secret source of energy that never dies. As a person he is persistent and determined to make his choices work and try to make his dreams a reality. As a father, he takes the time to tell how he cares and makes his sons and daughters insanely proud to bear his name. He helped us in all the possible ways whether that was affordable or not for him. At each step of his journey of life, he helped encouraged us. In his dictionary of life, there is no such word ‘future’. A person who lives with today not tomorrow. I really proud of my father especially this type of attitude. 🙂

My best friend gave me a name ‘memory card’ because whatever is happening around me gets saved to my mind directly; everything goes to my mind’s hard disk and gets saved. But if i talk about my father he has billions gigabyte memory…. really… sometime i get shocked… How he can remember all those things which i never thought or expected. This is totally unbelievable to me till now…i would say he is the real  ‘memory card’.

We all brothers and sisters are the left hand of PAPA and mom has been always right hand of him, without her, he is nothing.  It is rightly said that mothers give to take but fathers give you wings to fly and touch the sky. His eyes speak for the belief. He has in me and tells me that i am the most special.