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UPDATE – August 2010 – I just discovered that the move to the new SCN has totally borked this post. So I have tried to remember the bits that have disappeared and re-established the images, etc. Thanks to Alex Lim who pointed this problem out to me.

Many of us have to travel extensively as part of our jobs. Many SAP consultants I know spend Monday through Thursday in a completely different city to the one they live in and get back late Thursday evening for Friday in the office, Saturday with the Family, and some of Sunday preparing for the early Monday flight to the customer site.

It is much better for me now, but in the mid to late 1990’s I worked for SAP Australia and travel was a constant feature of the job. I was the SAP Australia IT Manager and had to travel to Germany, Asia and North America regularly as part of the role. And when you live in Australia pretty much everywhere overseas (with the exception of New Zealand) is at least 9 hours flight time away.

In one calendar year I had 14 overseas trips!

My worst ever experience was flying out of Sydney on a Sunday afternoon (GMT+10), arriving Frankfurt Monday early morning (CET), driving to Walldorf, attending an all-day meeting, driving back to Frankfurt Airport, onto a flight that left Monday evening (CET), and arriving back in Sydney Wednesday morning (GMT+10).

This, of course, is madness.

So the next month I did the same trip with a one-night stay over.

I told you it was madness.

I was doing this because my boss felt there were important reasons for me to attend these meetings (he was right) and because I had a major project I was running at home that had to be delivered on time so I felt I needed to be away for as short a time as possible. And let’s face it, if given a choice, most of us would prefer to be at home with family than alone in a foreign hotel.

Of course I was wrong. I was of no use to either my employer or my family for the remainder of that week. I spent most of it in a fog. Then I pretty much missed the following weekend with my family as I was too tired to do anything much at all.

I started to dread these trips more and more. I think I am a fairly easy-going person but I don’t think the people around me would have thought so at this time. So I needed to change things – and quickly.

I could have changed jobs, but actually I liked the job. It was full of the sort of variety, challenges and rewards that I liked and needed. I could stop travelling, but it was an integral part of the job and – as mentioned before – I actually liked the job.

I decided I needed to adjust my work-life balance. When it came to these trips it was all “Work” days and no “Life” days. I needed “Life” days.

I resolved that on every overseas trip I would take at least one “Life” day to enjoy the place I was in. Often I would fly out of Sydney on Saturday, or even Friday, to get my “Life” day in before my “Work” days began. Having my “Life” day at the beginnning of the trip helped me recover from jet-lag quicker and gave me something to look forward to as I was sitting in airport lounges and on planes for all those hours. If I couldn’t have my “Life” day at the beginning of the trip I would fit it in somewhere in the middle or at the end.

My “Life” days have included…

  • Shinkansen from Tokyo to Kyoto. Kyoto Gosho Imperial Palace
  • Hiring a convertible to drive along the PCH . Santa Monica, Venice Beach, etc. Lunch at Marina del Rey. Malibu, etc.
  • Lunch at Sintra. Walk up to ruined Moorish fort and castle on hills above.
  • Watching France 98 World Cup Quarter Final with Spanish fans in Plaza Mayor, Madrid
  • Helicopter ride into Grand Canyon
  • Amsterdam – recommend having breakfast near flower markets
  • Trouping of the Colour parade on The Mall – followed by visit to Tower of London
  • Walking the hills and forests above Hiedelberg after snow fall – we Aussies don’t see snow very often
  • The Black Forest. Standing at top of ski-jump on the Schwarzwaldhochstraße.
  • Swiss Alps with roof down
  • Jumbo’s seafood restaurant, East Coast Park, Singapore. Singapore Chilli Crab.

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    1. Graham Robinson Post author
      Thanks for your comment Jim. It is just as well I didn’t go to Sapphire Orlando this year as I would have “slipped off” to watch the space shuttle launch and missed Sapphire.

      Cheers
      Graham Robbo

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  1. Christopher Solomon
    I am of a very similar mindset. I call it “me time”…..and I make sure I get some in as often as possible to balance things out. Otherwise, as you noted, you get to feel like you’re burning the candle at both ends way too much and too fast! Thanks for the blog.
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  2. Alvaro Tejada Galindo
    Graham:

    Thanks for this blog…I really enjoy it…

    On my first TechEd in Las Vegas (2007) I took 3 hours from a Wednesday to do a “Vegas walk”…very nice…I walked for 3 hours, bought some stuff, dehydrate myself under the sun but forgot about all the Blogger’s Corner, Press conferences, Hands-on-Sessions and everything that keeps you awake and without free time on TechEd.

    Sure, last year (2008) I did the same at the same day…but this time I took Marcelo Ramos with me…we walk for 3 or 4 hours, not sure, without any particular destination…just walk, take pictures, walk and relax…of course, we when get to the hotel we were stinking LOL but that’s another story -:)

    This year at Phoenix, I’m planning to do the same…if everyone wants to join me…they’re more than welcome. A time to relax is always need it.

    Greetings,
    Blag.

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    1. Graham Robinson Post author
      Hi Blag,

      Thanks for you comments, but I am afraid 3 hours does not cut it. We need to plan a full day excursion when in Phoenix. I’ve heard Sedona is nice. ๐Ÿ™‚

      Cheers
      Graham Robbo

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  3. Thorsten Franz
    Hi Graham,
    That was a great blog! I think that being able to solve the kind of problem you describe here is one of the most important skills on the way to happiness.
    Find out what your prioritites are and what matters to you. In your case, it was a clear priority to keep the job because you like it, so giving up travel was not an option. From there, you made the best of the situation. ๐Ÿ™‚
    My personal preference is to be more development-oriented and office-based vs. a consulting-oriented job “on the customer’s lap” (involving a lot of travel).
    When you know your top priorities, even difficult life-changing decisions may turn out very simple, and you never regret a choice if you why exactly you made it.
    Cheers,
    Thorsten
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    1. Graham Robinson Post author
      Thanks for your comments Thorsten.

      I too am now much more of a stay-at-home person than I was when I worked for SAP. I now spend the majority of my time working from home and I certainly prefer it.

      My only work-related overseas trips now are to attend TechEd.

      Cheers
      Graham Robbo

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    2. Ali Sรกnchez
      Hi , I think you are lucky , i have been working with SAP – no for sap ๐Ÿ™ – for 4 years and i’ve never traveled anywhere . I would like to change  job just to travel more . Greetings thank for so excelent blog. 
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